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Chapter 11: Using the Laws of Suggestion
The Show... Let's go back in time. Return with me to my first college stage performance in 1977. You will be sitting in the audience. Picture yourself sitting in a large circular college activity center, located at Loras College in Dubuque, Iowa. It is a Saturday night and there are about 7000 people in attendance. There are the students, and faculty of Loras College as well as students from other schools located nearby. As you look up on the elevated stage you notice just one-man present and 18 empty, metal folding chairs located behind him. You wonder as you look up on stage, "Who is going to volunteer to be put in the hypnotic trance? Once they are in that hypnotic trance, what are they going to do?" The stage hypnotist is now asking the entire audience to participate in a live experiment involving suggestion, the basis of hypnotism. The stage hypnotist, Wayne F. Perkins, raises his arms to get your attention and says: "Here is an experiment in suggestion you all can participate in right from your chair located in the audience." He continues: "Close your eyes. Take three slow deep breaths. Each time you inhale, breathe in life sustaining oxygen. Each time you exhale, push all of the tension completely out of your lungs. Now open your eyes and focus your attention at me, here on stage." The stage hypnotist is now holding a large, yellow lemon in his left hand. He is holding it high in the air for everyone to see. Wayne continues: "Before you, I hold a large, sour, bitter, juicy, yellow lemon. It is such a sour, bitter juicy, yellow, lemon. Now a take a knife out of my pocket and I cut into this sour, bitter, juicy, yellow, lemon. As I cut into the lemons some of the sour, bitter, juice drops to the floor. Now, I take the sour, bitter, juicy, yellow, lemon to my mouth. I begin to suck on this sour, bitter, juice." Wayne adds: "Notice how your mouths tend to fill with saliva." You have experienced hypnotic suggestion." Objectives of Chapter 11 In this chapter, you will learn some very important hypnotism theory. In most hypnotism books you find these principles located in the first few chapters. I feel strongly that by having you develop your own techniques based on the limited theory I presented in chapters one and two, you will have success and goal achievement before you are presented with more advanced theory. Since all hypnosis is self-hypnosis, your success is directed by the gut feeling you have in applying my text up until now. By presenting other theories relating to self-hypnosis, you will be able to refine your techniques and be able to diagnose any problems in your self-hypnosis style. Let's begin! What Is Suggestion? Suggestions are words and/or ideas that cause our body to react physically. For example, if you smell you favorite dish cooking, your salivary glands will secret. You will begin to water at the mouth as your body anticipates tasting and breaking down the foods you only smell at the moment. If someone tells you that you look sick, you may begin to feel sick. Even if you were feeling great at the time, enough of those you-look-sick suggestions may cause physical illness in your body. If someone that you admire tells you how great a song is, you may listen and feel the same way. Again, this may happen even if it isn't the type of music you would normally listen to. Can you think of a time when this happened to you? Suggestions don't always apply to hypnosis in the classic sense. Suggestions also refer to subtle influences or direct influences one person exhibits over another person. When you raise your voice in anger and direct it toward your spouse or your children, you cause their behavior to change (at least temporarily). When you give a person a reward, "Hey, I will give you $20.00 if you quack like a duck," some people for $20.00 would quack like a duck. When you are at a sporting event are you more likely to stand up and yell for your team, if everyone at the game is participating than if you are watching the game by yourself at home? This would be an example of a subtle suggestion. Other people are helping you temporarily, change your behavior. There are many types of suggestions that affect human behavior. Direct suggestions are statements to encourage you to act automatically and immediately. When I was in the Army, if my drill sergeant would shout at me to duck, I would duck without question. The penalty of looking around instead of ducking may be injury or death. Even though I have been out of the Army for over 30 years, if someone were to stand behind me and shout, "Duck!" I would be the first to unquestionably hit the ground! Indirect suggestions are much subtler. Sometimes you are unaware that they are even happening at the time. For example, if a person in your workplace or classroom yawns, you may yawn as well. If a stranger comes up to you and smiles, you may automatically smile at the stranger. Shaking your head no, or shaking your fist at someone, will also get an unconscious response. In a previous chapter, I discussed prestige suggestions. These are suggestions we accept as fact because we truly believe in the person giving the suggestions. A famous clergy person is telling you how great you are, a teacher is telling you that you are a remarkable student, a famous entertainer is complimenting you on your music or art skills. All of these suggestions are accepted into your subconscious mind as prestige suggestions. Listening to music or looking at fine art to get into a certain mood, are examples of non-prestige suggestions. Certain music may suggest dance, laughter, sorrow, relaxation, etc. Certain pieces of art also suggest feelings that the subconscious mind begins to act upon. Are may have a calming effect or one which stimulates your creativity. When your body seems to react automatically to these suggestions, the hypnotic condition is produced. What Is Critical Thought? What is critical thought? Why is it important? When someone commands you by saying, "Sit down," you may first evaluate the situation. You may think, why should I sit down? Why is the person commanding me to sit down without explanation? What do I have to gain by following this person's instructions? You may decide that you don't want to sit down and you may tell the person, that you prefer to stand. Critical thoughts are those thoughts that are evaluating the other person's commands or suggestions, before we take action. When you are deeply hypnotized, and someone says, "Sit down," you just sit down immediately. Your body reacts as if it had a mind of its own. You respond very quickly and decisively to the command. The suggestion bypasses the critical thought part of our mind. When you use self-hypnosis, attempt to bypass critical thought. If you are a smoker who desires to become a non-smoker, tell yourself that you ARE a nonsmoker and that each day you practice more and more that you ARE a nonsmoker. If you find that as you are giving yourself this suggestion, you are asking yourself questions like, "why should I? Why am I doing this? What do I have to gain? Stop for a moment and take yourself back to breathing deeply and relaxing. Think of pleasing surroundings, music, art, pleasant smells, etc. Soon a more positive mood will present itself and healing will take place. You will be back on track. Only, after you relax and clear your mind, do you go back and start on your positive prescription, as your subconscious mind becomes open to suggestion. Remember when you were a child. Your parents may have mentioned that Santa Claus was going to bring you presents. The thought of getting presents was so appealing to your imagination that you accepted it as fact. Your parents hypnotized you. When you became 7 or 8 years of age, you thought more and more critically. You had more experiences to draw upon and you become more opinionated than when you heard about Santa Claus for the first time. Think more and more as a young child does when you hypnotize yourself. Remember when you were small ALL things were possible. It's only after adult life has beaten you over the head that you remain in a critical mode of thinking. Think as a child and achieve all things in life. Making the Law of Reverse Effect Work For You What is the law of reversed effect? The law of reversed effect was first written about by the great French philosopher, Emile Coue', who stated, "the harder you try to do something, the harder it becomes." Think about it. Have you ever attempted to do well in one of your studies in school, or in learning a skill in sports, only to fail after you have "tried" it several times? We teach ourselves to "try harder." We try harder only to fail. This is how the law of reversed effect works. The word "try" implies doubt in your abilities. Whenever you are in a situation or you are attempting to achieve a goal, don't "try" to do it. Relax and envision yourself achieving the goal, or overcoming the situation. See yourself very clearly in your mind's eye, already in possession of your goal. If you are starting a new task, relax and feel confident that you have everything you need to achieve success. Relax, let go, and achieve success. Success will come to you, once you let your guard down and allow it to enter your life. Let's Hypnotize Ourselves This time we are going to use an induction that will include convincers. Convincers are exercises that allow you to feel hypnotized. These are exercises that test if you have bypassed your critical thought. They also use Emile Coue's law of reversed effect. Here is how it works. As you progress through the eyes closed induction, I present, I will give an exercise that will allow you to imagine your eyelids are fastened down so tightly that you cannot open your eyes when you try as hard as you can. When you find that your imagination has fastened your eyelids together temporarily, your subconscious mind will open much faster and become more receptive to your personal prescription. As your critical thought becomes bypassed, you will find yourself going deeper into this wonderful state of mind. I will insert 3 critical thought exercises. Test yourself, than move on deeper into hypnosis. You will always know that you can open your eyes at anytime, however as you pretend that your imagination is causing this to happen, critical thought is being bypassed and you really are sinking down deeper into this wonderful state. Let's begin. Get your tape recorder ready and prepare to record this exercise using your own voice. BEGIN INDUCTION Sit up in your favorite chair, or lie down on your couch or bed and begin to relax. You may find that after the weeks we have been doing these exercises, that already your eyelids want to close down and allow you to feel that familiar feeling of deep and perfect relaxation. (Pause) Now close your eyes and take three deep breaths. (Pause) As you exhale, let all of the tension leave your lungs. (Pause) You are going, deep, deep, and deep into hypnosis. (Pause) Nothing will awaken you; nothing will disturb you as you relax very, very deeply. (Pause) Your mind is keenly alert and aware, as your body is relaxing deeply. (Pause) Each and every deep breath is assisting you in relaxing deeply, each and every sound that you hear is assisting you in relaxing deeply. (Pause) You are gaining more and more control over the subconscious part of your mind. (Pause) Now picture yourself walking up to an elevator. (Pause) You are on the tenth floor and the elevator will take you on a relaxing ride down to the first floor. (Pause) I will count at the same time from 10 down to 1. As I begin counting, think about the elevator ride going form the 10th floor down to the first floor. (Pause) As you picture yourself taking the slow, relaxing, elevator ride down to the first floor, you will become more relaxed than ever before. (Pause) All right, 10 you are getting into the elevator and the door is shutting behind you. (Pause) 9, you are going deeper and sounder into this relaxing feeling of hypnosis. (Pause) 8, deeper and sounder than ever before, as the elevator travels downward. (Pause) 7, all of your body is relaxing as you drift off toward hypnosis. (Pause) 6, breathing deeply and relaxing deeply (Pause) 5, the elevator is nearing the fifth floor and you feel as if you are lighter than air, as you drift peacefully toward sleep and relaxation. (Pause) 4, deeper, sounder and more perfectly, relaxed. (Pause) 3, every muscle and fiber is totally and completely, relaxed. (Pause) 2, you are almost at your destination. (Pause) 1, you are on the ground floor, you are deeply and completely, relaxed. (Pause) Think about relaxing the muscles around your eyelids. In a moment your eyelids will be stuck together, tightly. They will be stuck together so tightly that you will test them and find that they are stuck together tightly. So tightly stuck together, that it will be impossible for you to open your eyelids no matter how hard you try. (Pause) Think about relaxing those muscles around your eyelids. Stick those eyelids so tightly together that you absolutely cannot open your eyes no matter how hard you try. Try as hard as you can to open your eyes. Try two or three times. (Pause) Now forget about your eyes and go deeper and sounder into this pleasant state of mind. Keep your eyes closed down and relax deeper than ever before. (Pause) Now, pretend that either your left leg or your right leg is filled with sand and getting very, very heavy. (Pause) Your leg is becoming so heavy that you will not be able to lift it, now matter how hard you try. Try as hard as you can to lift that heavy leg. Try once or twice. (Pause) Now forget about your leg, and as you do, you are going deeper and deeper into this pleasant state of hypnosis. (Pause) Now as you relax in hypnosis, imagine that one of your arms is filled with helium gas. Picture your arm being filled with helium gas, and as your arm fills with helium gas it begins to rise up from your side or from your lap. (Pause) Your arm is so light, it is lighter than air and is rising up in the air. (Pause) As your arm rises in the air, you are going deeper, and deeper into this deep state of hypnosis. (Pause) Your mind is alert and aware as your body is relaxing soundly, and perfectly. (Pause) Now imagine letting all the helium gas out of your arm and letting your arm fall back into your lap, or by your side. (Pause) As your arm falls back into your lap or by your side, you are going deeper and deeper into hypnosis. (Pause) Your mind is keenly alert and aware, as your body relaxes perfectly and completely. (Pause) In a moment you will prepare to emerge from this wonderful state of hypnosis. (Pause) You will find that after you emerge from hypnosis that all of your regular sensations return to your body. Your mind will be rested, refreshed and ready to move on to more exciting things in your life. As you use this and the other exercises I have given you during the past 11 chapters, you will find yourself achieving your goals much quicker than ever before. You are calm and confident and filled with the self-satisfaction of becoming the master of your mind and master of your destiny. (Pause) At the count of five you will be wide-awake, alert, rested, refreshed and all sensation will come back to your body. (Pause) Okay, One, get ready, to return. Two, your breathing is speeding up a little bit as you move toward the conscious state. Three get ready now. Four, Five, wide awake, alert, and feeling good in every way! END INDUCTION How do you feel? Wasn't that fun? Did you enjoy the "convincers?" Did you see and hear the word "try" to practice the law of reversed effect? The next time you watch a stage hypnotist, notice how he or she employs the law of reversed effect and uses convincers to deepen the effect of the hypnosis on stage. Workshop Activity 1 - Evaluation of the Convincer Induction Record your reactions and thoughts to this exercise by answering the following questions.
5. List anything that you feel was "memorable" during the exercise.
Summary In Chapter 11, you learned some basic hypnotism theory. You successfully experienced that theory in action with the hypnotic "Convincer Induction." You are now ready for some great experiences in using the power of your own mind! You now have learned a wonderful skill. You have mastered the exercises and are achieving your goals. Part 2 of this book includes more hypnosis theory, the history of hypnosis, and many Internet resources that will help you achieve all of your goals. I wish you success.
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